She may love roses and romantic dinners, but what she really needs from you might surprise you.
Every girl loves roses, romantic dinners, love notes. Girls love all these type of things. But don't let them fool you!
These are really not the things that they need the most from you.
All the gifts and romantic moments are nice, but they are really just icing on the cake.
Guys are usually more driven by tangible things — they want to provide nice things for their girl, they want to look good for her, and they want to say the right things and do the right things. But, in general, girls are more driven by non-tangible things — they want to know how you feel, they want to connect with your heart, they desire security and trust.
Honestly, guys, it is all the character-stuff and all the heart-stuff that your girl really needs from you.
She needs to know he thinks she's beautiful. Deep at the core of every woman is the desire to know that she is beautiful, valuable and worthy to be pursued.
Be generous with compliments. Compliment her when she is dolled-up and compliment her when she is in everyday clothes with little makeup. (Be sure to make sure these compliments are done in a gentleman-type way and not with sexual overtones.)
Girls want their guys to stands by side and not leave them alone.
No matter what the situation is she wants you to be with her.
Encourage her in her gifts and talents. Help her recognise things that she is good at. Be vocal about your support of her. Speak well of her privately and publicly.
She needs transparent conversation (Honesty). Girls desire that their boyfriends be honest when communicating feelings, expectations and boundaries. When you take the lead in honest communication with your girl, you help her guard her heart.
Girls want to connect with your heart. She wants to know what you are thinking about. She wants to know your dreams and aspirations.
Listen to her. A girl is happy when her boyfriend takes the time to listen to what she has to say. She wants a patient ear to share her day at work, her interests, and her successes and disappointments. Listening to your girlfriend is an opportunity to get to know her better as a person.
Girls like guys who pushes them to follow their dreams. Girls look for guys who support them.
Stop talking extensively with other girls. You do not need to continue casually texting or communicating with old flames or girls who are "just friends" if you really are interested in exclusively dating your girlfriend.
Be a man of your word in all spheres of life. Don't drop plans because a better opportunity came up. And as much as possible, don't back out on your commitments. When you follow through on your commitments within your dating relationship and in other commitments, it brings trust and security into your relationship.
Girls wants their guys to respect them and their decisions. This is the quality every girl wants in their boyfriend.
Girls want their guys to make some time for them.
Every girl wants their boyfriend manages to take out time for her, despite of the busy schedule.
Girls want their guys to be open minded. Guys should not be conservative. They should give space to their girlfriends. They should not be over-possessive.
In summary, she just wants you, the real you — the you that is at the core of your heart. If you focus on all the heart-stuff, all the non-tangible things, you will give your girl what she needs the most.
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